That belly you see is just my usual fat self, but I have gained 5 pounds and my clothes are too tight. I'm determined not to buy any maternity clothes until I absolutely have to. This is not because I don't like maternity clothes. As a matter of fact, I love maternity clothes! The only time I get to wear a lot of new things is when I'm pregnant because I'm the kind of person who normally spends about $100 a year on clothes. Maybe $200 if you include shoes. $250 if you include jewelry. Seriously, my budget is $20/month.
So anyway, the reason I don't want to buy anything much in advance is that last time around, I grew out of clothes before I had a chance to wear them. I was due in September, so in March I went out and bought a lot of summer things. That year in Michigan the warm weather didn't come until June, and by that time I was too big for some of the stuff I bought. You're supposed to just buy size "small," "medium," "large," etc. based on your pre-pregnancy size and, just to be safe, I bought a size up from that. Still, I had to keep buying new things cotinuously. By August I had grown out of every single thing I owned and had to buy a whole new wardrobe (ok, that just means a few pairs of pants, really) for one month of wear. I had to shop in the fat womens' maternity section, and I'll tell you, it was really hard to find anything at all that fit me. I went from an original size of 6 to bigger than 14. That's not about the belly - that's just the hips and thighs and the rest.
Even with all of that, I really loved the big belly. I never felt "fat." Well, there was that one photo that clearly showed all the cellulite on my thighs (shudder). But really, I loved the whole thing, including the maternity clothes. Yesterday, I went into my closet and looked at all those jeans that feel so tight, and I thought, "I'm going shopping!" The thought of buying stretch pants was a thrill. (I know, I'm sick in the head.) But I came to my senses. In the meantime, I'm going to go shopping in those boxes of maternity clothes that have been in storage for 3 years. Yipee!
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