Samantha and I went to our first Montessori class today. Since it is a 7-week session designed for toddlers, I thought that it would be full of moms and kids who were starting pre-school in the fall, just like me and Sam, but the school starts taking toddlers into this class as soon as they can walk, and some people repeat the 7-week session, so the ages ranged from 15 months to just-turned-three, and most of the kids had been to prior sessions. I think there were about 8 children there today, but it varies from week to week.
The class was held in a room set up just like a Montessori classroom, but geared just a bit younger. There are rolled up mats which the children use to define their own work space on the floor. If they prefer a table, there are a few, all with just two chairs, one for mommy and one for the child. There is a potty on the floor in the corner, but no pressure to use it. The materials/toys are similar to a primary Montessori class, but a bit simpler. Everything is on low shelves and the children pick what interests them, or they watch other children. There is also a big slide for those kids who just need to get their energy out. There is a snack table with just two chairs, so the kids must take turns. Bananas, plastic knives, napkins, cups and a pitcher of water are nearby, to be used whenever hunger strikes. The moms stay with or near the children, guiding them in the proper use of the materials (but in a more informal way than a primary class) and the one teacher floats about and makes suggestions as necessary. The last 15 minutes of the 1.5 hour class is "circle time" for singing a few songs as a group. It's a good signal that class is about to end.
The materials they have are wonderful - I wanted to play with everything myself! They have dozens of items: peg boards, scissors and paper, puzzles, paper and glue, a sensory table with beans, and Sam's favorite: a small box with 5 beautiful marbled rocks in different colors. She would shake the box and pour the rocks out on to the table in a controlled fashion, sort of like she was playing craps. Then she would carefully put the 5 rocks in a line. Then she would pick them up one at a time and drop them back in the box. She repeated this exercise many times. Who would have guessed that this would be the most interesting thing in the room?
Sam immediately understood the concept of taking one toy at a time, bringing it to a table or mat, and then returning it when finished. She needed a reminder to put things away a couple of times, but it was great to see that this was not a foreign concept to her. We clean up at home, but there is no one-toy-at-a-time rule and things get pretty messy every day.
Sam didn't do as well with respecting others' work. She pushed and grabbed a few times. Although this is "normal," I'm really looking forward to more of this structured Montessori time where I can work on this with her. I knew this was one big drawback to putting her in day care, where the practice seems to be to yell loud instructions across the room when a child does something really flagrant, like pushing another kid hard enough for him to fall down. I'm not worried about Samantha in this area, though. She is a very empathetic and orderly child and I'm sure with the right guidance, she'll get the idea of taking turns and respecting others.
Just before circle time, the teacher took a bell and walked in a circle around the carpet. The bell is one of my strongest memories from my own days in Montessori. At circle time, we'd play "pass the bell." While sitting in a very large circle (well, we sat in a square around a carpet), one child would get the bell and have to walk with it to a child on another edge, without allowing the bell to ring, and then hand it to the next child. It was an exercise in concentration and body-control. Today, the oldest girl in the class, who has been to a few primary classes, took the bell and tried to walk without ringing it. I didn't realize this was a Montessori tradition - I thought it was just my own particular teacher's invention.
Beyond all the other reasons I want Samantha to go to Montessori, it will be wonderful to share all of these traditions with her. I look foward to all the memories that will surface in me as I watch her go through it.
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